Contact

[loficharm]

"Hullo, you've reached Martin Blackwood. Sorry I missed you! Leave me a message, and I'll get back to you straightaway."


[Leave mail, voicemail, texts, etc. for Martin Blackwood here.]

Comments

[swerved]

even if he knows what you're doing and why... I think it would help BOTH of you to tell him SOMETHING. at least just that you're not icing him out or whatever.

[loficharm]

i'm not "icing him out" i don't even know what that means

[loficharm]

i'm doing this to protect him

[loficharm]

it's just what has to happen i don't like it either but i just have to

[loficharm]

if he's miserable because of me then. then he should find someone else to worry about

[loficharm]

someone who matters more

[swerved]

I don't think you get to pick who matters to you and how much, or who you worry about

[swerved]

and I'm not saying you have to tell him everything, just...

[swerved]

pushing someone away to protect them tends to look like just pushing them away

[loficharm]

[very long pause]

I don't know what else to do